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It’s your wedding day, and somewhere between the vows and the first dance you’ve got to stand up and talk. Tell us about the two of you, who you want to thank and the moment you knew, and we’ll write a groom speech that gets the thank-yous right and says what you really feel.
An example opening
Written from a groom’s answers about his new wife, Sophie, who he met on a delayed train to Leeds in 2018, when he shared his last sausage roll with her.
In 2018, on a delayed train to Leeds, I made the best decision of my life. I shared my last sausage roll with the woman in the next seat. Eight years later, she’s agreed to share everything else.
Before I go any further, my wife and I would like to thank you all for being here. My wife and I. I’ve been waiting all day to say that. Some of you have come a very long way to see how the story of the sausage roll ends, and we’re so glad you did.
How we write a groom speech
- The traditional thank-yous: the previous speaker, both sets of parents, and anyone you’d like to mention.
- Something real about your partner. What you love about them and when you knew, in your words, not a greetings card’s.
- Funny without the risk. No exes, no stag do stories and nothing that would make either family wince.
- Three versions to choose from: mostly funny, funny and heartfelt, or mostly heartfelt.
- The toast to the bridesmaids or the wedding party, plus three delivery tips.
What to include in a groom speech
British weddings follow a familiar order, and guests expect the groom to cover a few things:
- Thank the previous speaker, usually the father of the bride, and thank everyone for coming.
- Thank both sets of parents, and anyone who helped make the day happen.
- Remember anyone who can’t be there, briefly and warmly, if you’d like to.
- Talk about your new wife or husband. This is the heart of the speech.
- Toast the bridesmaids, or the wedding party, and hand over to the best man.
When does the groom speak?
Traditionally the groom speaks second, after the father of the bride and before the best man. Plenty of couples change the order now, and the speech works wherever you put it.
How long should a groom speech be?
Around four to five minutes, roughly 450 to 650 words. The thank-yous take up a fair bit of time, so if you want room for stories too, choose “Longer”.
Tips for giving a groom speech
- Print it out, even if you plan to read it from your phone. Phones die and screens lock.
- Look at your partner for the heartfelt part. The room will be looking at them too.
- Go easy at the bar until the speeches are done.
- Have the gifts ready if you’re giving any to parents or bridesmaids, so the thank-yous flow.
Prefer to write it yourself? Read our guide to how to write a groom speech.
Questions
How much does it cost?
Reading the opening is free. Unlocking all three full versions is £14.99, a one-off payment.
Who writes the speech?
Our speechwriting system, which uses artificial intelligence and follows British wedding customs. It works only from what you tell us, so it sounds like you.
Does it work if we’re two grooms?
Yes. Give us both your names and the speech will use them, with no assumptions about who’s who.
Is my information private?
Yes. Your answers are used only to write your speech and are deleted automatically after a set time. See our privacy policy for details.
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