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You’ve got one chance to say it in front of everyone: how proud you are, how much she means to you, and a proper welcome for the newest member of the family. Tell us your memories and we’ll turn them into a father of the bride speech you’ll be proud to give.
An example opening
Written from a few details: the bride once ran a lemonade stand that made a loss, and she’s been organising the family ever since.
When Emma was seven, she set up a lemonade stand at the end of our drive. By the end of the afternoon she’d sold eleven cups, given away fourteen, and made a loss of £2.40. I remember thinking, this girl is never going to be an accountant. But she is going to be very, very loved.
Good afternoon, everyone. For those I haven’t met, I’m Emma’s dad, and today I have the enormous privilege of welcoming you all to the happiest day of our family’s life.
Who should the father of the bride thank?
You don’t need to thank everyone. That’s partly the groom’s job. But it’s traditional for the father of the bride to:
- Welcome all the guests, especially anyone who’s travelled a long way
- Welcome the other family, and say something kind about your new in-laws
- Thank anyone who’s helped make the day happen, particularly if they’re family
- Remember, briefly and warmly, anyone who couldn’t be there
Tell us who’s on your list when you fill in your answers, and we’ll weave them in naturally.
When does the father of the bride speak?
Traditionally first, before the groom and the best man, either just before the meal or once it’s finished. Your speech sets the tone, so a warm, confident start helps everyone who follows.
What if I’m the stepdad, or giving the speech for someone else?
That’s more common than you’d think, and it can make for a very moving speech. Choose “Another family member or friend” and tell us your relationship to the bride, and we’ll write it from your point of view.
What goes into a father of the bride speech?
Traditionally, the father of the bride speaks first. A good speech usually:
- Welcomes everyone, and thanks anyone who helped make the day happen
- Shares a few stories about his daughter growing up, some funny, some that show who she is
- Welcomes his new son- or daughter-in-law into the family
- Ends with a toast to the happy couple
We build all of that in for you, around your own stories. If you’re the mother of the bride, or giving the speech in someone else’s place, just choose that when you start.
What you get
- Three complete versions: funny, heartfelt, and a balance of both.
- Nothing made up. Every story comes from your answers, so nobody at the table can say “that never happened”.
- Room for people who can’t be there. Mention anyone you’d like remembered, and it’s done warmly and briefly.
- Delivery tips, plus an emailed copy you can come back to.
Tips for the father of the bride
- Keep it to five minutes or so. You speak first, so you set the tone for the whole afternoon.
- Tell one story that makes them laugh and one that makes them well up. That’s the combination people remember.
- Say something real about your new son- or daughter-in-law. It means more than you’d think.
- Have tissues handy. Not for the guests. For you.
Prefer to write it yourself? Read our guide to how to write a father of the bride speech.
Questions
How much does it cost?
Reading the opening is free. Unlocking all three full versions is £14.99, a one-off payment.
Who writes the speech?
Our speechwriting system, which uses artificial intelligence and follows British wedding traditions. It works only from the memories you give us.
What if I’m not very good with words?
That’s exactly what this is for. You bring the memories, we find the words. Short answers are fine, but specific details, like a nickname, a family saying or a disastrous DIY job, make the best speeches.
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