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More and more brides are standing up to speak, and why not? Tell us about the two of you, who you’d like to thank and the moment you knew, and we’ll write a bride speech that’s funny, warm and unmistakably you.
An example opening
Written from a bride’s answers about her new husband, James: loyal to a fault, would do anything for anyone, and absolutely cannot cook.
James can’t cook. I found that out on the day we met, on a delayed train to Leeds, when the only food he had was one sausage roll. He shared it with me. On a delayed train to Leeds, that counts as a candlelit dinner.
Thank you all for being here. I know it’s still a little unusual for the bride to give a speech. But I’ve been listening to James talk for eight years, so I thought it was only fair he listened to me for five minutes.
How we write a bride speech
- Your stories, your voice. Every detail comes from what you tell us. Nothing is made up.
- The thank-yous done properly: parents on both sides, your bridesmaids, and anyone else you’d like to mention.
- Something real about your partner, including the moment you knew they were the one.
- Funny without the risk. No exes, no hen do stories and nothing that would make either family wince.
- Three versions to choose from, a toast to finish, and three delivery tips.
What to include in a bride speech
- An opening that grabs the room, ideally about the two of you.
- Thank-yous to the previous speaker, both families and everyone who helped.
- Remember anyone who can’t be there, briefly and warmly, if you’d like to.
- Your new husband or wife: what you love about them, and when you knew.
- A toast, usually to the bridesmaids, the wedding party or your guests.
Should the bride give a speech?
There’s no rule that says she can’t. Traditionally the bride didn’t speak at British weddings, but that’s changed fast, and a bride speech is now one of the highlights of many receptions. Some brides speak alongside the groom, some instead of him, and some have the last word after the best man. Do whatever feels right for you.
How long should a bride speech be?
Three to five minutes is ideal, roughly 400 to 650 words. If the groom is speaking too, keep yours a little shorter so the thank-yous don’t get repeated.
Tips for giving a bride speech
- Agree the thank-yous with your partner beforehand, so you don’t both thank the same people.
- Keep your notes somewhere safe. A bridesmaid’s bag is a good place.
- Breathe before the heartfelt part. A pause looks confident, even if you don’t feel it.
- Enjoy it. It’s your day, and everyone in the room is on your side.
Prefer to write it yourself? Read our guide to how to write a bride speech.
Questions
How much does it cost?
Reading the opening is free. Unlocking all three full versions is £14.99, a one-off payment.
Who writes the speech?
Our speechwriting system, which uses artificial intelligence and follows British wedding customs. It works only from what you tell us, so it sounds like you.
Can we give a joint speech?
Our speeches are written for one speaker, but plenty of couples take one speech and split it between them, a few paragraphs each. It works really well.
Is my information private?
Yes. Your answers are used only to write your speech and are deleted automatically after a set time. See our privacy policy for details.
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