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Writing a eulogy is one of the hardest things anyone is asked to do, often at the worst possible time. Share your memories of them, and we’ll help you shape them into a tribute that honours who they really were. Take your time. Your answers are saved as you go.
An example opening
Written from a daughter’s memories of her mum, Peggy: a mill worker from Bacup, famous for her Sunday dinners and for once driving to Blackpool in her slippers.
My mother once drove all the way to Blackpool in her slippers. And she never, not once, admitted it was a mistake.
If you knew Peggy Ellis, you’re probably smiling already, because that was her. Stubborn, generous and funny, often all three before breakfast. I’m her daughter, and I’ve been given the impossible job of fitting eighty-six years of Mum into a few minutes.
How we write a eulogy
- Only your memories. Nothing is invented. Every detail comes from what you share with us.
- Warmth first. Gentle smiles where they come naturally, never jokes for the sake of it.
- No assumptions about faith. We only mention religion if you do.
- Three versions to choose from: a celebration of their life, a balance of smiles and tenderness, or quiet and reflective.
- Gentle delivery tips, including what to do if you feel yourself welling up.
What to include in a eulogy
There’s no single right way, but most eulogies that people remember include:
- A line that captures them, something everyone in the room will recognise straight away.
- Their story in brief: where they grew up, their work, the people they loved.
- What they were like: their sayings, habits and the little things that made them who they were.
- One or two memories, one that makes people smile and one that shows their heart.
- A farewell. A simple goodbye, a thank-you, or one of their own sayings.
Can a eulogy be funny?
Yes, and often it should be. A story that makes the room smile is a way of bringing the person back for a moment. The key is warmth: laughter with them, never at them. Choose “A celebration of their life” if you’d like more smiles, or “Quiet and reflective” if that feels more right.
What if I’m too upset to read it?
That’s completely understandable. Ask a friend, family member or the celebrant to have a copy ready so they can take over if you need them to. Many people find that just knowing someone is ready is enough to get them through.
Can more than one person give a eulogy?
Yes. Some families share it, with each person speaking about a different part of their life. If so, choose the “Short” length and focus on your own memories.
How long should a eulogy be?
Most eulogies are three to five minutes, roughly 400 to 650 words. Check with the funeral director or celebrant how much time you have. Crematorium services in particular can be tightly timed.
Tips for giving a eulogy
- Print it large, with plenty of space between paragraphs, so you don’t lose your place.
- Keep a glass of water nearby, and if emotion catches you, stop, look down and breathe. Everyone in the room is on your side.
- It’s fine to have someone on standby who can read it for you if you can’t carry on.
- A little laughter is a gift. One story that makes people smile helps everyone, including you.
Prefer to write it yourself? Read our gentle guide to how to write a eulogy.
Questions
How much does it cost?
Reading the opening is free. Unlocking all three full versions is £9.99, a one-off payment.
Who writes the eulogy?
Our speechwriting system, which uses artificial intelligence and follows careful rules for funerals. It works only from the memories you share, so the words are about them and nobody else.
Is my information private?
Yes. Your answers are used only to write your eulogy and are deleted automatically after a set time. See our privacy policy for details.